What would be the journey of your life. Does it tackled about being a complete woman or does it talk about how to live like a perfect person or your talking about how to be popular or to be a millionaire in one day?! Well, everybody aim to be like that. Wish to be an extraordinary person. Some of us didn't know what is the truly meaning of ""HAPPINESS".. Do you know what it is? Let me ask you one thing, are you happy now with your life or what makes you happy as a person.
We've been blind of all materials around us. We thoughts being rich from materials and money could make us the happiest person on earth. Do you think that would be the real happiness or just a simple way to fulfill the sad part of our life in a few hours or day. Did you read some stories of a kids from a popular families, or from a rich family. Did you ask them if they are emotionally happy?
When I'm alone I always thinking what if I'm rich would I be happy enough?
One of the most important thing in my life happen about holding money and comparing about happiness is when my dad been so sick.
We spend everyday a lot of money just to let him survive and be with us a lil bit more of time. We talk about financial support beyond happiness. Well, yeah he lived a few more days, but we want more, and more.. We asked the doctor if we can make a laser and if it helps for my dad and how many days, months or hour should my dad live after that operation or process. We are willing to take any risk about financial problems just to know that it would help my dad and it would make sure that his sickness will be cure and live with us again out of pains. Does it goes around simple like it sounds to be? Nah, sorry but its not what you think. The doctors refuse to do that, and they said money couldn't help your dad this time, unless God will make a miracle to cure him and live! Yeah, we talk about happiness and money. We got money not that much but are we happy enough without my dad? Not at all! Money wouldn't help at all time, but if you're emotionally happy I'll make sure money comes next if your not lazy. It takes a lot of efforts and patience to make our life happy. But not all the time you can ask money to buy happiness. Don't intimidate someone just because they got no much money or just simply because they are poor. None of us can predict the future nor can judge someone base on their financial statements. Ask yourself what if your situation is the same as what they have? What if the person you love rejected you coz your poor, does it feels you happy? Put your feet on others shoes so you can feel what they feel before you judge them…
True happiness feel inside your heart not by counting how much money you have.
It comes from a very simple thoughts and simple life. Count the simplest smile you got everyday, every smile you got a day will take you away for a risk of your health. Be thankful for all the blessing you got. Maybe now you got just a simple life but your family is living peacefully and quite loving each other that’s the most happy moment of your life… You're like a millionaire if you have that..
Learn From Your Mistakes...Admit your Mistakes..
Why do most of us hardly to accept that We made mistakes?..Coz of what?
1) PRIDE-Egoistic emo! Ego can Kill a Life! Can break someone's heart!
2) Shy!- Ashame that U've got mistake? You should not be ashame for that,coz your just a
human being born not to be perfect!
3) Weak!- Yeah, most of time we're weak to face all the reality about what we did..
4)Pay for the mistakes!= Agree,you're afraid what would gonna be the punishment beyond those mistakes.But haller,Thats a TRIAL in our Life that makes you Stronger!
5)Acceptance of your Weakness & Reality! Yeah, Its hard to accept sometimes that We are just a human being..Got some difficulties attitudes,make mistakes,been weak..Its you time now to accept your mistakes and weaknesses..Face it as a challenge in our Life! The impostant thing is "YOU KNOW HOW TO ACCEPT YOUR MISTAKES AND YOU KNOW HOW TO GET INTO A RIGHT LINE AGAIN"..Dont waste your life for nonsense things! There are more beautiful and blessed things that are waiting for us! Cheer Up!
1) PRIDE-Egoistic emo! Ego can Kill a Life! Can break someone's heart!
2) Shy!- Ashame that U've got mistake? You should not be ashame for that,coz your just a
human being born not to be perfect!
3) Weak!- Yeah, most of time we're weak to face all the reality about what we did..
4)Pay for the mistakes!= Agree,you're afraid what would gonna be the punishment beyond those mistakes.But haller,Thats a TRIAL in our Life that makes you Stronger!
5)Acceptance of your Weakness & Reality! Yeah, Its hard to accept sometimes that We are just a human being..Got some difficulties attitudes,make mistakes,been weak..Its you time now to accept your mistakes and weaknesses..Face it as a challenge in our Life! The impostant thing is "YOU KNOW HOW TO ACCEPT YOUR MISTAKES AND YOU KNOW HOW TO GET INTO A RIGHT LINE AGAIN"..Dont waste your life for nonsense things! There are more beautiful and blessed things that are waiting for us! Cheer Up!
Signs that your Partner is Cheatting
Some of these signs of a cheating spouse are "tongue in cheek" while others are tell tale signs that commonly appear with a cheating husband or cheating wife. There is no copyright. Feel free to forward to those who might be interested. But please don't change anything.
Signs of a Cheating Spouse:
1) You find birth-control pills in her medicine cabinet, and you've had a vasectomy.
2) Mutual friends start acting strangely toward you. (They either know about the cheating or have been told stories about what a horrible wife or girlfriend you are.)
3) Your cheating husband or wife stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you.
4) Sets up a new e-mail account and doesn't tell you about it.
5) He leaves the house in the morning smelling like Irish Spring and returns in the evening smelling like Safeguard.
6) She joins the gym and begins a rigorous workout program.
7) She buys a cell phone and doesn't let you know.
8) He sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to his office.
9) The cheating husband carries condoms, and you are on the pill.
10) Begins to delete all incoming phone calls from the caller ID.
11) Deletes all incoming e-mails when they used to accumulate.
12) He becomes "accusatory," asking if you are being true to him, usually out of guilt.
13) Raises hypothetical questions such as, "Do you think it's possible to love more than one person at a time?"
14) He buys himself new underwear.
15) He insists the child seat, toys, etc., are kept out of his car.
16) The cheating wife stops wearing her wedding ring.
17) Has a sudden desire to be helpful with the laundry.
18) Has unexplained scratches or bruises on his or her neck or back.
19) Suddenly wants to try new love techniques.
20) He/she fairly suddenly stops having sex with you.
21) He/she suddenly wants more sex, more often.
22) Supposedly works a lot of overtime, but it never shows up on the pay stub.
23) Picks fights in order to stomp out of the house.
24) You find out by accident he or she took vacation day or personal time off from work - but supposedly worked on those days.
25) Shows a sudden interest in a different type of music.
26) Spouse's co-workers are uncomfortable in your presence.
27) Has a sudden preoccupation with his or her appearance.
28) Spends an excessive amount of time on the computer, especially after you have gone to bed.
29) He throws up a lot because he just ate at his mistress's house and had to eat the dinner you prepared when he got home.
30) Your spouse is away from home, either nights or on trips, more than previously.
31) His/her clothes smell of an unfamiliar perfume or after-shave. You see lipstick on your husband's shirt.
32) The amount of money being deposited into your checking account drops off.
33) You find items of intimate apparel or other small gift-type items that you did not give your spouse.
34) Your spouse seems less comfortable around you and is "touchy" and easily moved to anger.
35) You get calls where the caller hangs up when he or she hears your voice.
36) He/she loses attention in the activities in the home.
37) Your intuition (gut feeling) tells you that something is not right.
38) He/she has a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the home.
39) She uses a low voice or whisper on the phone or hangs up quickly.
40) She has a "glow" about her.
41) Atypical erratic behavior.
42) He sneaks out of the house.
43) She sleeps with her purse by the bed.
44) She goes to the store for groceries and comes home 5 hours later.
45) He tells you that you can get hold of him at a different telephone number.
46) The telltale sign of a cheating spouse? Having to ask that question in the first place.
This is base from the expert Dr. Robert Huizenga..
Signs of a Cheating Spouse:
1) You find birth-control pills in her medicine cabinet, and you've had a vasectomy.
2) Mutual friends start acting strangely toward you. (They either know about the cheating or have been told stories about what a horrible wife or girlfriend you are.)
3) Your cheating husband or wife stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you.
4) Sets up a new e-mail account and doesn't tell you about it.
5) He leaves the house in the morning smelling like Irish Spring and returns in the evening smelling like Safeguard.
6) She joins the gym and begins a rigorous workout program.
7) She buys a cell phone and doesn't let you know.
8) He sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to his office.
9) The cheating husband carries condoms, and you are on the pill.
10) Begins to delete all incoming phone calls from the caller ID.
11) Deletes all incoming e-mails when they used to accumulate.
12) He becomes "accusatory," asking if you are being true to him, usually out of guilt.
13) Raises hypothetical questions such as, "Do you think it's possible to love more than one person at a time?"
14) He buys himself new underwear.
15) He insists the child seat, toys, etc., are kept out of his car.
16) The cheating wife stops wearing her wedding ring.
17) Has a sudden desire to be helpful with the laundry.
18) Has unexplained scratches or bruises on his or her neck or back.
19) Suddenly wants to try new love techniques.
20) He/she fairly suddenly stops having sex with you.
21) He/she suddenly wants more sex, more often.
22) Supposedly works a lot of overtime, but it never shows up on the pay stub.
23) Picks fights in order to stomp out of the house.
24) You find out by accident he or she took vacation day or personal time off from work - but supposedly worked on those days.
25) Shows a sudden interest in a different type of music.
26) Spouse's co-workers are uncomfortable in your presence.
27) Has a sudden preoccupation with his or her appearance.
28) Spends an excessive amount of time on the computer, especially after you have gone to bed.
29) He throws up a lot because he just ate at his mistress's house and had to eat the dinner you prepared when he got home.
30) Your spouse is away from home, either nights or on trips, more than previously.
31) His/her clothes smell of an unfamiliar perfume or after-shave. You see lipstick on your husband's shirt.
32) The amount of money being deposited into your checking account drops off.
33) You find items of intimate apparel or other small gift-type items that you did not give your spouse.
34) Your spouse seems less comfortable around you and is "touchy" and easily moved to anger.
35) You get calls where the caller hangs up when he or she hears your voice.
36) He/she loses attention in the activities in the home.
37) Your intuition (gut feeling) tells you that something is not right.
38) He/she has a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the home.
39) She uses a low voice or whisper on the phone or hangs up quickly.
40) She has a "glow" about her.
41) Atypical erratic behavior.
42) He sneaks out of the house.
43) She sleeps with her purse by the bed.
44) She goes to the store for groceries and comes home 5 hours later.
45) He tells you that you can get hold of him at a different telephone number.
46) The telltale sign of a cheating spouse? Having to ask that question in the first place.
This is base from the expert Dr. Robert Huizenga..
Ang Martir At Ang Pretender
Ano nmn ang pinagkaiba ng MARTIR,sa pagiging great PRETENDER...
kpag martir ka, lahat tinatago mo.. gusto mo cia,pero dahil sa dahilang di mo alam, sa sarili monlng.. para lang umiwas sa mga isyu lalo na kungpaborito ng bayan ang kwento ng buhay mo..
nakikita mo cia kasama ng iba, habang ikawpasimple nlng na lumalayo at kunwari walangnakita..
xempre, bakit mo pa cla titingnan?.. kung ang naismo talaga ay ikaw ang nsa ganong kalagayan...
masakit kc, mdalas imposible... pero angpagmamahal, hindi matatawag na pagmamahalkung hindi ka msasaktan..
minsan, ang kung gaano pa cia kasakit,mas lalomo ciang minamahal...
kahit niloloko ka na at pinapaasa, ikaw isang martirkunwari isang bulag na walang nakita...
madalas hindi raw naaapektuhan, pero pagdatingsa bahay, kapag mag-isa na lng, ano gnagawa mo?
ayan, umiiyak habang wlang nakakakita..walang nakakaalam...
pag tinatanong ka kung hanggang saan ang kayamong ibigay, sasabihin mo:
" lahat, lahat ng kaya ko.."
pero pag tinatanong ka na kung ano naang gagawin mo matapos mong masaktan,e2 angsagot mo:
"... iyak.. dadaanin ko nlng saiyak..mwa2la din yan.."
hindi mo alam.. sa bawat luhangpumapatak,lalong dumadagdag ang pagmamahal mosa knya...
tanga ka na sa ibang tao.. pero angtingin mo sasarili mo isa pa ring henyo..
bakit..
kasi..
sa bawat pagmamahal na binibigay mo,hindi mn ikaw ung nagkukulang..
pero mali pa rin daw un..
magtira daw para sa sarili..
tama nmn.. pero mahirap gawin..
para sa isang taong, puso ang umiiral...
ipaliwanag mo man sa knila, hindi nila un maiintindihan..
dahil
hindi nmn sila ung nsa kalagayan mo diba...
ikaw, na nagmamahal lang, ayan..tingnan mo mabuti..
umiiyak ng wlang katapusan..
wala nmng pinagkaiba sa pgiging greatpretender eh..
ang taong martir AY MAGALINGMAGPRETEND..
oo.. expert sila jan..
dahil.. kahit alam nila na hindi nmn silaang mahal,
anong ginagawa nila, ayan, hindi pa rinnatitinag..
hindi nagsasawa..
patuloy pa rin sa pagbibigay..
hanggang sa wala ng mailuha..
hanggang sa maging manhid na..
oo nga nmn..
bakit mo itatago ang nararamdaman mosa knya di ba?!..
anong nakakahiya?.. eh mahal mo cia..
minsan ang pagiging tanga, wala sapagiging martir..
ang pagiging tanga, nasa pagigingduwag..
bakit mo itatago ang isang bagay, na khitkelan hindi nmn kasalanan...
magtira para sa sarili, un ang sabi nila..
pero kaya ka nga nagmamahal,
dahil mahal mo ang sarili moat gusto mo lumigaya kasama ng taongmahal modi ba?..
pero madalas..
kung cno ung nagmamahal ng totoo..
ung pa ung nagdurusa, sa kabila ng lahatngpagmamahal na kaya nilang ipadama..
wala nmn minsan sa knila ung problema..
minsan nandun na sa taong mahal nila..
na masasabi kong great pretender din..
kc nag-pepretend sila na wala silangnararamdaman..
pareho lang di ba?!... wlang pinagkaiba..
hindi mo alam kung knino ka namaniniwala..
pero sa kabila ng lahat.. hindi momagawangmagalit sa taong mahal mo..
tapos ng ilang minuto, ayan ka na ulit..
obserbahan mo sarili mo..
babalik at babalik ka uli sa knya..
ilang beses mo mang itanggi sa sarili mo,
ikaw yan at wala ng iba..
pero kpag nsasaktan ka na, ano pa rininiisip mo,
"paano na cia"...
cia.. cia.. puro kapakanan niya.. eh siyaba..
khit minsan inisip ka?.. hindi nmn di ba...
pero asan ka..
ayan, sa kbila ng lahat ng sakit, tumatayopa rin..
lumalaban.. cge lang ng cge..
hanggat kaya pa...
ganyan magmahal ang martir..
walang bakit, paano, cno, dati at kungano ano pa..
ang meron lang, :
"mahal na mahal mo xa...."
For My Greatest Mom
Nang Magmulat ako ng mata at magkaisip
Lagi kang nasa tabi ko, Mahal kong Ina,
Trabaho dito,trabaho doon maging sa dako pa roon..
Mula umaga hanggang hatinggabe pa..
Upang kinabukasan namiý mapaghandaan..
Kapaguraý ayaw ipakita sa iyong mga muka,
Laging ng may nakalaan na ngiti sa iyong mga labi,
Liksi ng katawan ang malimit kong magisnan,
Hinanakit sa buhay pilit pinagtatakpan..
Iyong katatagan aking hinahangaan at aking huwaran!
Kabutihang loob moý tumitimo sa aking kaibuturan,
Ang pangaral moý syang humubog sa aking katauhan,
Halitulad moý higit pa sa "Gintong Kumikinang"..
Itapat man sa ibaý tiyak na di matatawaran!
Salamat sa Dios at Ikaw ang naging syang Ina ko,
Ipinagmamalaki ko ang Inang Tulad mo,
Pagmamahal, pang-unawa at pag-aaruga,
Maging sa kaapo-apuhan moý ipinamamalas mo,
Napalayo man ako sa piling mo mahal kong Ina,
Mananatili kang nasa isipan at puso ko..
Ang mahalin ka't paglingkuran ay kulang
Hinde ko man kayang tumbasan ang kadakilaan mo,
Pagmamahal at respeto ko,mananatili lage para sayo!
I LOVE YOU NANAY BABY KO! MISS YOU!
Note: I wrote this actually last year and i sent it to my
One and Only Greates MoM, Nanay Baby!
Much love,
JhAjhA- Bunzo
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